CHAT WITH MICHELLE
How to move from Relationship Rules to Love Agreements

There are places we go in relationships that are so tender, and sometimes so hard, that we don’t want to tell anyone. And yet, we need a witness, we need guidance and counsel. Both internally...

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Watch: Unseen BJ Miller and Michelle Irving

 

In this workshop with Michelle and BJ Miller (co-founder of Mettle Health) you'll discover how to shift 
your Story of Illness. You'll learn how to:
- Identify the...

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Read: Give yourself permission to ask for what you want

There are times in all our relationships, personal and professional, where things build up. Unmet needs or overbearing demands congeal into resentments, and we can get overwhelmed. I have noticed...

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Read: Never make a man uncomfortable, and other useless advice

Over the last month, power dynamics in relationships has been a hot topic for my clients. In particular, women have been describing what I call ‘the command’, where a man instructs a...

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Read: The World Does Not Need More Frantic Women

For the last couple of months, I have driven myself crazy creating relentless promotion and event deadlines (not to mention cash outlays). My daily demands (laments) were that I needed to promote...

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Read: Why healthy relationships demand all your messiness

Over the last couple of months I have fallen in love with a generous, intelligent man who knows his own emotional depth. Some of the fabulous aspects of romantic relationships are the...

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Read: Treats and Tantrums: Is your inner child running your life?

I like to think of myself as a mature adult. However, I know I make decisions and have reactions that are shall we say, are not the most mature option available.

I have come to understand how all...

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Read: Chasing More: the Anxiety Spiral

We often think about where we want to be – the next career move, next apartment, next loving romantic partner or the next time we fit into a size 10 dress. Once we get there, then things will...

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Read: Mastering Maturity - 6 Keys to finding your inner adult

In our culture women are not encouraged to be in their authentic, mature feminine self. Most of us don’t even know what that would feel like. Yet it is possible stand in your...

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Michelle Irving
Listen: Are you acting like a child or a teenager? Learn to be your Mature Self.
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Listen: Are you acting like a child or a teenager? Learn to be your Mature Self.

Learn to be your Mature Self

Alice Agenello, podcast host of Kids Are Grown, Now What? interviews Michelle about intimate relationships.

How do you have mature, healthy relationships and stop...

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Michelle Irving
Listen: How to create Authentic Relationships
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Listen: How to create Authentic Relationships

 

Authentic Relationships

Is your inner child or inner teenager running your dating and relating? 

In this Conscious Conversations podcast with host Kasia Kowalewski Michelle talks all...

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Read: The Labour of Love

It has taken me years to come to terms with one of the most obvious truths about intimate relationships: that there is labour in love.

We have all heard that you can’t change a person, and...

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